Drugs and alcohol have long been dangerous temptations for teens. Teenagers feel that nothing can hurt them and these temptations are readily available today, which the combination often leads to trouble. Today, it is imperative that parents address these adolescent temptations in a constructive manner.
Parents have a tendency to be more passive than necessary, and hoping their teen will reach out to them with their concerns and questions. However, this often happens far too late.
Be Proactive
Grab every moment you can to teach your teenagers. Adolescents learn through repetitive actions. They also follow according to examples set at home. It is very much a tragic event, when a teen suffers serious injuries from a car accident caused by drunk driving or with he or she overdoses on some type of drug. These types of events are things teenagers have an understanding of today.
You should set a policy of zero tolerance on alcohol and drug from the start. It is dangerous even to okay occasional use of alcohol or drugs. Teenagers are extremely impulsive and highly influenced by peers. Just one beer could turn into the teen downing a six-pack.
Explain to your teen that you know situations will arise, where their peers will be consuming alcohol and possibly using drugs. Tell him or her that you expect him or her to use wise judgment during these times and just say no.
Closely Listen to Your Teenager
Teens have very selective hearing. The things you say may not penetrate into their brains. When your teen decides to tune into what you are saying make sure also to listen closely to what he or she has to say.
At times, it is quite difficult for teens to think effectively about sensitive issues. Spend enough time listening to your teen, when he or she is trying to talk about a subject.
